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SAAM 2018

SAAM 2018

Nearly 1 in 5 women in the United States have experienced rape or attempted rape some time in their lives, and 1 in 67 American men have experienced rape or attempted rape.

April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM) and the goal is to raise public awareness about sexual violence and educate communities on how to prevent it. This year, SAAM is celebrating its 17th anniversary with the theme “Embrace Your Voice” to inform individuals on how they can use their words to promote safety, respect, and equality to stop sexual violence before it happens. Individuals can embrace their voices to show support for survivors, stand up to victim blaming, shut down rape jokes,
correct harmful misconceptions, promote everyday consent, and practice healthy communications with children.

SAAM serves as a time to be intentional and effective in spreading messages that are positive and liberating to survivors. It increases support to survivors, empowers survivors, and gets our communities involved and mobilized into action by making them aware of the issues surrounding sexual assault.

Peace River Center’s Victim Services Rape Recovery Program provides FREE hospital advocacy, legal advocacy, prison advocacy, support groups, educational groups, information and referrals, survivor-focused counseling, and more. The 24 –hour sexual assault helpline is 863.413.2707. Educate yourself and help inform others by downloading the “Understanding Sexual Violence” sheet.

Proactive Parenting-Developing a Backup Plan for Your Teenager

By: Julia Bearden

As an adult, we are free to make our own choices. We all have certain values, beliefs, and ideals that guide our choices. The same is true regarding our parenting strategies. The goal of this article is to provide insight into proactive parenting strategies and to help create an effective backup plan if teenagers face a situation they want to leave.

Parenting Practices

Preparing our children and adolescents for challenges they may face is the goal of any parenting approach. Padilla-Walker and colleagues conducted a study in 2011 that addressed effective parenting approaches. These approaches include such practices as:

  • Parental sheltering of children to outside influences
  • Assisting children with the development of a plan prior to their experience with negative outside influences to ensure their success should they encounter opposition
  • Exhibit trust
  • Prevent conflict and overreaction

According to the Padilla-Walker and colleagues’ study, “As children enter adolescence, talking to them and then allowing them to make their own decision may provide an appropriate balance between communication of parental socialization values and adolescents’ trust and need for autonomy.”

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Communication

Providing your teenager with a clear time for communication and giving him/her your complete attention is important in fostering the relationship. Preparing an adolescent with a go-to way out of any situation could be the key to positive outcomes. For instance, regular communication with your teen builds trust and communication pathways. One suggestion could be ensuring your adolescents of a “no questions asked” way out, telling them no matter what situation they are in, if they call or text and need to leave where they are, they can employ the “no questions asked” rule. The “no questions asked” rule can be beneficial to creating and maintaining trust in the relationship. The teen will be able to rest in knowing his or her safety is the primary importance. In addition to this, ensure your teen has memorized a few emergency contact numbers of parents or trusted adults. Then, they can borrow a phone or go someplace to make a call in the event something happens to their cell phone. This

is easy to overlook in today’s cell phone reliant society where numbers are not as commonly memorized. Preparing your teen relies on open, positive, and direct communication.

Involvement

Parental involvement is essential in the adolescent years. Being an involved parent reduces an individual’s risk of making poor decisions due to unaccountability for his or her actions. Some ways to be more involved with your adolescents’ lives without invading their privacy are to meet their friends and their friends’ parents, attend school events and practices/games, give them space/alone time, engaging in activities together, etc. (Positive parenting strategies, 2011).

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Meeting parents face to face builds the relationship between your teen and their friends, as well as encourages accountability. For instance, it will be less likely for a teenager to lie about his or her whereabouts if you have already met the friends’ parents and exchanged phone numbers. Attending school events or practices your child is involved in demonstrates your interest in his or her life and will help make your child feel more connected. Teenagers are in an awkward transition between wanting to be close to significant adults and wanting to have space. Giving them space allows them to develop their own opinions and a sense of self. On the other hand, it is also important to find a common interest and spend time around that to foster the relationship. These are not all of the ways to be involved with your teenager because each relationship is different, but utilizing some of these techniques can be the start of being more involved.

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Padilla-Walker, L.M., Christensen, K.J., Day, R.D. (2011). Proactive parenting practices during early adolescence: A cluster approach. Journal of Adolescence. 34(2), 203-214.

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